Anonymous asked: I kinda have a lot of sexual desires/fetish; threesomes, dom/sum, he cumming inside, maybe one day try double penetration (not sure) and similars but my boyfriend is traditional and it's hard to convince him to let another girl or get him in a roleplay. But I love my bf more than sex (this is really a thing) have any suggestions?
This is really interesting because most people think it is the guy pushing for kinkier stuff and the woman being hesitant. Girls like you are awesome as fuck, so don’t ever change. I think watching porn with those kinks with him would definitely open him up. Getting off in front of him while watching that porn would do it even more. Your boyfriend wants to please you and make you feel good, but trying new stuff can be scary and he may think that he would suck at it and disappoint you.
Definitely ease him into those kinks. Talking about it first, watching porn after, and eventually easing him into the kink is a good way to approach it. There will be some things he won’t like no matter how much you try to show how hot it gets you. That’s the way it is. Start with the easier kinks first like cumming inside you, dom/sub and roleplay where it only involves you two. After that, you need to plant that seed of curiosity about those bolder kinks. If he came around to liking the easier kinks, he may want to go out on a limb and try the others.
It ultimately requires patience. You won’t change him overnight and you shouldn’t expect him to. Guiding him through these kinks and really exploring what they are can open up his mind to more and bring you two closer together in the process. The idea that you want to bring in another girl would get me immediately (I would ask how soon can you get her over here), so that makes you an awesome GF to me already. Giving him time will definitely help, and before you know it, he may want to get you into even kinkier shit than that. If that happens, don’t be afraid to share that with me ;)